Why marriages don't last
The rates at which marriages end are increasing day by day. On Instagram or facebook, you see pre-wedding photos and invitation letters of people getting married but why is it that some marriages don't last?
Here, I will be talking about the reasons why it doesn't last and the misconceptions people have about marriage.
Love is not enough for a successful marriage.
People think that the only thing needed in a marriage is love but this is wrong. As time grows between you two, the love fades. Love doesn't last as we all think.
For a successful marriage to happen, they should have the same interests and values, the same principles that is why most people say marry your best friend because you two flow together and your ideas and views on things sync together.
Women and men are not equals.
Some women feel that in the marriage, her and the man should be equals but this is wrong.
A man is the head of the family and it is his job to provide, protect and make decisions for the family. If the woman is the one providing and doing things the man should do, it will affect the marriage. The woman will lose her respect for the man and the marriage will fall.
Social media
Instead of couples discussing their problems among themselves, they post every little issue they have on social media.
There are some blogs on Instagram where people talk about their issues concerning their spouse; instead of discussing it with their spouse. How do you expect your wife or husband to know you have a problem with them if you don't tell them.
Every little detail or issue is posted on social media even how they have sex. It's good to seek for advice but there should be a limit to some things.
Some even cheat on their wives and post it on social media not even caring if their wives see it; having a side chick has now become a trend in society.
No attention
This reason is why most marriages crash. You don't give your spouse attention, you don't bother to care how the day was. Instead you are on the net doing things only God knows you are doing, you are always on business calls, meetings, travels that you have no time for your family.
Also, people love the attention they get from social media than the attention they get from their loved ones. 1000 likes on Instagram and a kiss from your spouse, which do you prefer?.
Click on the video below 👇
Here, I will be talking about the reasons why it doesn't last and the misconceptions people have about marriage.
Love is not enough for a successful marriage.
People think that the only thing needed in a marriage is love but this is wrong. As time grows between you two, the love fades. Love doesn't last as we all think.
For a successful marriage to happen, they should have the same interests and values, the same principles that is why most people say marry your best friend because you two flow together and your ideas and views on things sync together.
Women and men are not equals.
Some women feel that in the marriage, her and the man should be equals but this is wrong.
A man is the head of the family and it is his job to provide, protect and make decisions for the family. If the woman is the one providing and doing things the man should do, it will affect the marriage. The woman will lose her respect for the man and the marriage will fall.
Social media
Instead of couples discussing their problems among themselves, they post every little issue they have on social media.
There are some blogs on Instagram where people talk about their issues concerning their spouse; instead of discussing it with their spouse. How do you expect your wife or husband to know you have a problem with them if you don't tell them.
Every little detail or issue is posted on social media even how they have sex. It's good to seek for advice but there should be a limit to some things.
Some even cheat on their wives and post it on social media not even caring if their wives see it; having a side chick has now become a trend in society.
No attention
This reason is why most marriages crash. You don't give your spouse attention, you don't bother to care how the day was. Instead you are on the net doing things only God knows you are doing, you are always on business calls, meetings, travels that you have no time for your family.
Also, people love the attention they get from social media than the attention they get from their loved ones. 1000 likes on Instagram and a kiss from your spouse, which do you prefer?.
Click on the video below 👇
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