Women cheat but why?

At one point in our lives, we either cheat or get cheated on. Guys cheating on their ladies is now a thing of the past; it's not a new thing anymore. In the past, most ladies were loyal and subjective to their partner and society played a role in that but now, it's like our moral values have been thrown to the wind. Out of 10 ladies, 7 are cheating on their partners.

Cheating is bad irrespective of gender. I don't agree with a man cheating likewise a woman.

I carried out a research by asking 8 ladies why women cheat and their reasons were similar and I think it's peculiar to most ladies. Some reasons differ in each individual, meaning to some that might not be their reason, while to others it is. Here, are the reasons:

1) Money
Now, most ladies today want to be slay queens/mama; want to have the latest iPhones (iPhone X), designer clothes, bags, shoes, human hair that is on fleek. They want guys that have flashy cars, that when you see them they speak of money. Most girls want to be in a position where their guy is providing them with what they need and is spoiling them; so if you are not spoiling your girl and another guy is doing it, Oga, she will dump you.

2) Love and attention
Women love it when their men show them love and attention. Young guys these days are emotionally unavailable. They don't care about their girl or her needs, they don't ask her how her day was, they don't spend time with her; All they care about is money, work, sports, hanging out with friends and sex(not saying it's bad but it should be in moderation). Sometimes, guys should put themselves in girl's shoes; if your girl doesn't have your time and she denies you sex, how would you feel about it?.

There are some guys that change after the girl has agreed to date them. All the work and effort they did to get her goes down the drain. They are like "why should I still do what I did before", "she is already mine" so no need; what you are failing to do, another man will do it and in that situation she will most likely cheat on you.

Most girls go for older/married guys because they treat them right, they buy them anything they want. Most times it's not because they want to end up with them, but because of the attention and "love" they get from these men. That is why there are alot of side chicks.

I don't support a lady dating a married man, no lady should destroy a home.

3) Sex
Ladies love sex the same way a man does and that is good sex. If her man is not pleasing her sexually, she will cheat on him. Some say the size of his penis matters alot; if it's small then that's a problem; also inexperience from the guy can make a lady cheat.

4) Boredom
This is a reason why some girls date bad guys. According to them, good guys are boring, very predictable, not versatile, very rigid, very narrow minded; are not easy to discuss with and don't have a good sense of humour, so they get tired of the relationship and instead of ending it, they will cheat and play you.

5) Revenge
If the guy has played her before, she will date him and play him back. A pay back for breaking her heart.
Most girls know when her man is cheating on her, so if the guy thinks he is being smart by playing her, she is smarter. Although, some guys are very good at hiding it and leave the girl clueless.

Most at times, the men women cheat with, are usually emotionally attached to them even the men they sleep with, unlike men that can sleep with different ladies and won't have feelings for them.

If you love your woman and you don't want to lose her, there are things you need to do to avoid that:

1) You don't have to be Bill Gates or Dangote to please your woman. Funny enough, some women still cheat on their Rich boyfriends or husbands but even with the little you have you can spoil her, make her special, make her feel loved. A woman that truly loves you will stick with you even though you have no money.

2) Stop being emotionally unavailable. If you have no time to date, then don't date at all. If you dont show your woman love, then I don't think you should be surprised if you hear she is cheating on you.

3) Be understanding, be supportive.
Support her in her work, support her in everything she does.

"If your woman is happy, there will most likely be no reason for her to cheat".

Ladies and Gentlemen, what are your views on this? Let us know in the comment section.