Fact about friends
People that like u will like u no matter what u do. They will like u for who u are even when u think u are not good enough (Tho always be positive and never look down on yrself), True friends are always there. When u fall, they are there to pick u up, when u are sad, they will be there to comfort, when u need help, they are ready to help. True friends are very hard to come by..
In a group of 5, only one person is ur true friend. In a group of 10, only one or 2 are ur true friends..
People often misjudge people and think the person/people they like is good and is true but it is not in all cases. The person u love more might be your worst enemy or might hate u secretly. The person u are closest to might not be your friend or shd i say, to him/her u are nothing special.
It is good to know ur true friends, it's good to observe, discern. I had a bad friend in school which I considered a close friend for 3 years, didn't know she was bad 😊(will get into why I tagged her bad). So, she has been my close friend for 3 years, I confide in her, I tell her everything. Even when I want to gossip, she is the right person. So, This has been going for 3 years and unknown to me, she use to gossip abt me, tell people things i tell her and even make fun of me. Now, This was some1 I considered a close friend, some1 I trusted but anything I told her, she tells the world abt it. I found out the truth in a painful way but the good thing was that I found out the truth. Imagine if I didn't find out, I would have still be thinking she was my friend.
Note: If u have a friend that gossips alot, be careful with the information u give bcos she will tell some1 abt it.
If ur friend always constantly says bad things about people, she will speak bad things about u 2, don't think u are an exception.
In picking true friends, u need to be wise as a serpent and gentle as a dove.
Another thing, never be some1 u are not because u want to please ur friends. If they don't like u for who u are, then they are not ur true friends, u are most likely some1 they want to use and when they are done with u they will dump u and later u will be wondering what's up.. To save ur self from that, learn to be YOURSELF.
Love yourself and the right peoplewill come. Bad people feed on the weak, vulnerable, people who can't make decisions for themselves so be tough, be bold, know what u want and u will attract the right kind of people.
Have u been disappointed in the past? Let's know about it
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